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		<title>By: Delusions Of Grandeur</title>
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		<dc:creator>Delusions Of Grandeur</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2009 22:01:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kho = baduy.  Halili = extremely baduy.  Okay, they&#039;re not visually offensive but I took the time to listen to their sex video&#039;s  &quot;soundtrack&quot; and my disdain blossomed as soon as I heard the first word.  Eek.  

I don&#039;t particularly think Kho is an asshole for having filmed his sexcapades, but I think he was dumb to let his freinds know where to find his tapes.  I don&#039;t feel at all sorry for Halili because, well, she&#039;s just another criada who happens to be pretty and her coming out on film like this should have been an assumed risk.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kho = baduy.  Halili = extremely baduy.  Okay, they&#8217;re not visually offensive but I took the time to listen to their sex video&#8217;s  &#8220;soundtrack&#8221; and my disdain blossomed as soon as I heard the first word.  Eek.  </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t particularly think Kho is an asshole for having filmed his sexcapades, but I think he was dumb to let his freinds know where to find his tapes.  I don&#8217;t feel at all sorry for Halili because, well, she&#8217;s just another criada who happens to be pretty and her coming out on film like this should have been an assumed risk.</p>
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		<title>By: Juan Paglaum</title>
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		<dc:creator>Juan Paglaum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 04:08:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The people should think it that the administration is trying to address the needs of the its people.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The people should think it that the administration is trying to address the needs of the its people.</p>
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		<title>By: Mike Hirama</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike Hirama</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 09:04:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Project Human Heart – Compassion, Love and Forgiveness
= With the touch of human heart we can live in peace =
Written by Mike Hirama

Hello,

Today, I would like to kindly ask you to give me a few minutes of your time to read my letter to you.  This is not about me.  This is about you, your friends and family and the country you dearly love: the Philippines.  There is one young man living in Manila whose life you may not care at all, but I would like to introduce him to you.  His name is Dr. Hayden Kho, Jr.  Perhaps you hate him to death, but I beg you on my knees to just please give me a chance to speak to you.  

Some 2000 years ago, Jesus did not just teach his followers; if he did, he would just be a god of Christians at the most, but God of all.  He invited from sinners to roman soldiers who were vengefully against him.  In fact, he accepted all people with everlasting compassion.  What Jesus taught was the meaning of compassion with his deeds.  Compassion or compassium in Latin means “to suffer with.”  By showing His unconditional love for all people whose life had been continued to divine and sander with agony and hatred, He suffered with them for their suffering was his suffering; and by showing love, He suffered with them.  

Even till this day, words of Jesus stand firmly in the hearts of people.  By sharing their suffering as your owns is to love them as your own kind and to love Jesus; and that was his teachings.  Yet, unfortunately many have turned their backs against the teachings of Jesus; and turn to people with agony and hatred that continue to divide and sander people, which Jesus firmly stood against 2000 years ago.  Sadly even after two millennia, people still hate each other and on each other’s throat.  

Think of Dr. Hayden Kho, Jr. just for a minute.  You know the scandals.  As he admitted he made mistakes, but please think of what he is going through right now.  He has the entire nation all up in arms against him: from the careless gossips on each street all the way up to the senate and even NBI.  What you may not notice is that he is suffering intolerably and he is being torn apart alive.  Is it not more than enough for his misdeeds?  What he is going through – agony, suffering, vast sense of desolation and immense isolation – are far more than his misdeeds can ever justify, and this is already injustice, and yet, people still want to torment him more.  I want to ask you: “how much more pain do you have to inflict on him before you are satisfied?”  

There are many of you who believe in the words of Jesus, and yet somehow manage to do the exact opposite of his teachings by raising their fists of anger and coarse words against him.  If you say what you do is justice, I kindly ask you to look at yourself.  You are just as good or bad as your words and deeds are; and I cannot help, but wonder what is so just about raising fists of anger and coarse words.  When people live in anger, there can never be peace among us but what remains are agony and hatred that will simply divide and sander us even further.  Yet, if we could show even a bit of compassion, love and forgiveness; and really give a touch of human heart to others; we can live in peace.  

I want you to think how you would feel if you have the entire nation standing against you in outrage and violence.  Perhaps no words can ever match how you would feel, how your friends and family would feel; and you would be crying out for mercy because you are a human.  That is exactly what Dr. Kho, Jr., his friends and family and everyone around him are going through.  He has gone more than enough; and it is about the time for us to feel what he is going through as our own suffering, and show him compassion, love and forgiveness; and reach out to him him with a touch of human heart.  We can do that because we are human, and he deserves that because he is also a human being with heart and emotion just like me, you or everyone else.

By showing him compassion, human love and forgiveness that come from a touch of human heart you can offer, you do good for yourself, for your friends and family and for the country.  Please think.  You can do it.  

Thank you for taking your time.  


Mike Hirama
mhirama@yahoo.com
The Founder of Hayden Kho Support Group
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/support_hayden_kho/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Project Human Heart – Compassion, Love and Forgiveness<br />
= With the touch of human heart we can live in peace =<br />
Written by Mike Hirama</p>
<p>Hello,</p>
<p>Today, I would like to kindly ask you to give me a few minutes of your time to read my letter to you.  This is not about me.  This is about you, your friends and family and the country you dearly love: the Philippines.  There is one young man living in Manila whose life you may not care at all, but I would like to introduce him to you.  His name is Dr. Hayden Kho, Jr.  Perhaps you hate him to death, but I beg you on my knees to just please give me a chance to speak to you.  </p>
<p>Some 2000 years ago, Jesus did not just teach his followers; if he did, he would just be a god of Christians at the most, but God of all.  He invited from sinners to roman soldiers who were vengefully against him.  In fact, he accepted all people with everlasting compassion.  What Jesus taught was the meaning of compassion with his deeds.  Compassion or compassium in Latin means “to suffer with.”  By showing His unconditional love for all people whose life had been continued to divine and sander with agony and hatred, He suffered with them for their suffering was his suffering; and by showing love, He suffered with them.  </p>
<p>Even till this day, words of Jesus stand firmly in the hearts of people.  By sharing their suffering as your owns is to love them as your own kind and to love Jesus; and that was his teachings.  Yet, unfortunately many have turned their backs against the teachings of Jesus; and turn to people with agony and hatred that continue to divide and sander people, which Jesus firmly stood against 2000 years ago.  Sadly even after two millennia, people still hate each other and on each other’s throat.  </p>
<p>Think of Dr. Hayden Kho, Jr. just for a minute.  You know the scandals.  As he admitted he made mistakes, but please think of what he is going through right now.  He has the entire nation all up in arms against him: from the careless gossips on each street all the way up to the senate and even NBI.  What you may not notice is that he is suffering intolerably and he is being torn apart alive.  Is it not more than enough for his misdeeds?  What he is going through – agony, suffering, vast sense of desolation and immense isolation – are far more than his misdeeds can ever justify, and this is already injustice, and yet, people still want to torment him more.  I want to ask you: “how much more pain do you have to inflict on him before you are satisfied?”  </p>
<p>There are many of you who believe in the words of Jesus, and yet somehow manage to do the exact opposite of his teachings by raising their fists of anger and coarse words against him.  If you say what you do is justice, I kindly ask you to look at yourself.  You are just as good or bad as your words and deeds are; and I cannot help, but wonder what is so just about raising fists of anger and coarse words.  When people live in anger, there can never be peace among us but what remains are agony and hatred that will simply divide and sander us even further.  Yet, if we could show even a bit of compassion, love and forgiveness; and really give a touch of human heart to others; we can live in peace.  </p>
<p>I want you to think how you would feel if you have the entire nation standing against you in outrage and violence.  Perhaps no words can ever match how you would feel, how your friends and family would feel; and you would be crying out for mercy because you are a human.  That is exactly what Dr. Kho, Jr., his friends and family and everyone around him are going through.  He has gone more than enough; and it is about the time for us to feel what he is going through as our own suffering, and show him compassion, love and forgiveness; and reach out to him him with a touch of human heart.  We can do that because we are human, and he deserves that because he is also a human being with heart and emotion just like me, you or everyone else.</p>
<p>By showing him compassion, human love and forgiveness that come from a touch of human heart you can offer, you do good for yourself, for your friends and family and for the country.  Please think.  You can do it.  </p>
<p>Thank you for taking your time.  </p>
<p>Mike Hirama<br />
<a href="mailto:mhirama@yahoo.com">mhirama@yahoo.com</a><br />
The Founder of Hayden Kho Support Group<br />
<a href="http://groups.yahoo.com/group/support_hayden_kho/" rel="nofollow">http://groups.yahoo.com/group/support_hayden_kho/</a></p>
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		<title>By: MV</title>
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		<dc:creator>MV</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 08:53:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice site! Great analysis!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice site! Great analysis!</p>
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		<title>By: FILIPINAS IN SHOWBIZ [ Marian Rivera/KC Concepcion/Claudine Barretto ]</title>
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		<dc:creator>FILIPINAS IN SHOWBIZ [ Marian Rivera/KC Concepcion/Claudine Barretto ]</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 18:20:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Kho and the Illness Defense from About My Recovery  The Warrior Lawyer says Hayden Kho needs help. Indeed he [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Jean Rojas</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jean Rojas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2009 13:08:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Coyote for telling it like it it! I appreciate your comments and I think legally, you are soooo right! I mean,it&#039;s the 21st century now.At 54, I thought I&#039;d be old fashioned but I didnt know how many prudes and hypocrites there are around.I did not watch those videos.I ve been there, done that and I know what it&#039;s like.I didnt think less of Katrina or any other ladies in those sex videos.Of course I think Hayden is a cad but being a cad is not the same as having a criminal mind.Anyway, this will all be over in time.Let&#039;s just all simmer down and breathe deeply..Let&#039;s not hyperventilate over the issue.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Coyote for telling it like it it! I appreciate your comments and I think legally, you are soooo right! I mean,it&#8217;s the 21st century now.At 54, I thought I&#8217;d be old fashioned but I didnt know how many prudes and hypocrites there are around.I did not watch those videos.I ve been there, done that and I know what it&#8217;s like.I didnt think less of Katrina or any other ladies in those sex videos.Of course I think Hayden is a cad but being a cad is not the same as having a criminal mind.Anyway, this will all be over in time.Let&#8217;s just all simmer down and breathe deeply..Let&#8217;s not hyperventilate over the issue.</p>
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		<title>By: Paul Honsten</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul Honsten</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 10:04:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When ancient Philippines society was backward, we cried out for technological advancement. When we reached the desired stage, we complained of the consequences! We should note down that the video scandal is a the result of the &quot; advancement.&quot; 

The fact that Halili entered in Hayden&#039;s fucking room, there is consent. The bad side is when she was forcibly send out before her ejaculation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When ancient Philippines society was backward, we cried out for technological advancement. When we reached the desired stage, we complained of the consequences! We should note down that the video scandal is a the result of the &#8221; advancement.&#8221; </p>
<p>The fact that Halili entered in Hayden&#8217;s fucking room, there is consent. The bad side is when she was forcibly send out before her ejaculation.</p>
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		<title>By: coyote</title>
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		<dc:creator>coyote</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 12:35:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For the sake of argument, granting that these women are entitled to damages, what cause of action can they claim against hayden for videotaping the sex acts?  I agree it was morally wrong but was it unlawful and legally wrong?  I don’t think the women can claim breach of privilege communications or illegal wiretapping. I seriously doubt there is a law out there that you can throw against an actor of a consensual private tryst for videotaping without consent from the actor partner.   If the videotaping was made by anyone other than the actors, then possible invasion of privacy. Recall also that  two unmarried adults having consensual sex in a private place is not illegal in the Philippines. What hayden did was to film a private non-illegal event for posterity. What happened is no different than attending a private party, where the host secretly filmed the celebration.  Can the guests sue the host for invasion of privacy or any criminal wrongdoings?  Of course not. If the host sold the film and made money, yes the guests can sue for share of the earnings.  

How about if Kristina made the film without consent from Hayden?  Can Hayden also claim “binaboy”?  My guess is Hayden will still be blamed, this time for being stupid, not a real man for complaining, acting like a baby, etc. Because women’s group continue to nag about women’s right and sexual discrimination,  what about the term “reverse sexism”?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For the sake of argument, granting that these women are entitled to damages, what cause of action can they claim against hayden for videotaping the sex acts?  I agree it was morally wrong but was it unlawful and legally wrong?  I don’t think the women can claim breach of privilege communications or illegal wiretapping. I seriously doubt there is a law out there that you can throw against an actor of a consensual private tryst for videotaping without consent from the actor partner.   If the videotaping was made by anyone other than the actors, then possible invasion of privacy. Recall also that  two unmarried adults having consensual sex in a private place is not illegal in the Philippines. What hayden did was to film a private non-illegal event for posterity. What happened is no different than attending a private party, where the host secretly filmed the celebration.  Can the guests sue the host for invasion of privacy or any criminal wrongdoings?  Of course not. If the host sold the film and made money, yes the guests can sue for share of the earnings.  </p>
<p>How about if Kristina made the film without consent from Hayden?  Can Hayden also claim “binaboy”?  My guess is Hayden will still be blamed, this time for being stupid, not a real man for complaining, acting like a baby, etc. Because women’s group continue to nag about women’s right and sexual discrimination,  what about the term “reverse sexism”?</p>
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		<title>By: The Warrior Lawyer</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Warrior Lawyer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 05:29:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Cayote, the main issue is that Kho violated the trust and right to privacy of these women by videotaping them in compromising positions without their knowledge and consent. Whether or not Kho caused the dissemination of the  videos online is moot, as the fact remains that these women have been put to shame by the viral spreading of the sex videos. Kho brought his woes upon himself by secretly taking those videos in the first place.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cayote, the main issue is that Kho violated the trust and right to privacy of these women by videotaping them in compromising positions without their knowledge and consent. Whether or not Kho caused the dissemination of the  videos online is moot, as the fact remains that these women have been put to shame by the viral spreading of the sex videos. Kho brought his woes upon himself by secretly taking those videos in the first place.</p>
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		<title>By: coyote</title>
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		<dc:creator>coyote</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 May 2009 15:24:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>warrior, 

public humiliation? What makes us think that the showing of these videos have not humiliated Hayden as well? Dont forget he is a physician.  He has more to loss financially and professionally than most of these women.

what are we gonna do about his privacy and proprietary rights to these videos? Just because he is a man does not mean its alright to have the public see his butt.  Remember Hayden has a 50% proprietary rights to all these videos?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>warrior, </p>
<p>public humiliation? What makes us think that the showing of these videos have not humiliated Hayden as well? Dont forget he is a physician.  He has more to loss financially and professionally than most of these women.</p>
<p>what are we gonna do about his privacy and proprietary rights to these videos? Just because he is a man does not mean its alright to have the public see his butt.  Remember Hayden has a 50% proprietary rights to all these videos?</p>
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