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		<title>Anger and Grief</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Two sides of the same coin. There are some people who can grieve calmly and with equanimity. Unfortunately, I am not such a person. I lash out. I turn my rage inward. I isolate. 
I look for answers when I know there are none. It&#8217;s like banging one&#8217;s head against a concrete wall. Again and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Two sides of the same coin. There are some people who can grieve calmly and with equanimity. Unfortunately, I am not such a person. I lash out. I turn my rage inward. I isolate. </p>
<p>I look for answers when I know there are none. It&#8217;s like banging one&#8217;s head against a concrete wall. Again and again and again. <span id="more-1510"></span></p>
<p>I know it sounds melodramatic but there it is. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s somewhat comforting to know that I&#8217;m not alone and that this is a fairly common experience. Anger is one of the stages of grieving, per <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/K%C3%BCbler-Ross_model">Kubler-Ross</a>. But sometimes I can&#8217;t get beyond it. Like today. And the past few days. </p>
<p>Megan O&#8217;Rourke&#8217;s <a href="http://www.slate.com/id/2211257/entry/2211256/">series</a> of articles on the grieving process in Slate has been a great help.  Like her, I sometimes feel like biting people&#8217;s heads off. </p>
<p>I came across an unusual and really wonderful short story in the New Yorker, &#8220;<a href="http://www.newyorker.com/fiction/features/2009/04/20/090420fi_fiction_adrian?currentPage=all">A Tiny Feast</a>&#8221; by Chris Adrian which made me cry.    </p>
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<p>Have you read my other popular articles like <a href="http://thewarriorlawyer.com/2007/02/20/libel-on-the-internet-under-philippine-law/">Libel on the Internet under Philippine Laws</a> (Part 1),  <a href="http://thewarriorlawyer.com/2007/03/04/libel-on-the-internet-under-philippine-law-part-ii/">Libel on the Internet under Philippine Law</a> (Part 2) or on <a href="http://thewarriorlawyer.com/2007/09/09/freedom-of-expression-boybastoscom/">Freedom of Expression</a>?</p>
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